If you are dealing with several troublesome behavior problems with your child, give yourself permission to focus on one or two issues and ignore the rest. That’s right, ignore the rest.
We are not super parents and can’t mange every behavioral issue. Pick one that has the most serious consequence and work on it and then focus on the next one and so forth.
A common conflict comes when a behavior issue impacts school. Often it is better to focus on the behavior and not worry about the grad point average. That will work itself out after you gain success with the behaviors.
Try this for two weeks and let us know how it goes.